tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12672375.post5401808642305059788..comments2023-10-01T22:48:35.439+11:00Comments on Oh for the love of me!: Rape Is NOT About SexTinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03684484016009801609noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12672375.post-89423198497017616012007-05-07T20:49:00.000+10:002007-05-07T20:49:00.000+10:00I replied Anonymous' comments first because what h...<I>I replied Anonymous' comments first because what he/she wrote irked me. But anyhoos, sorry for the late reply, here it goes:</I><BR/><BR/>Conan_cat: Exactly. How stupid can one get? Really, foot in the mouth moment. Rape IS about violence. At the end of the day, it's the exhilaration of power the rapist gets over the victim, which gives him the ultimate high. Not sex.<BR/><BR/>Which brings me to the next comment.<BR/><BR/>Kamigoroshi: I so agree with you. Rape is about dominance over the weaker sex. The weaker person (if they're same sexed). <BR/><BR/>But at the end of the day, even though it shows weakness in the show of dominance, it will never undo what he did. At the end of the day, he won. And that is the saddest of all.<BR/><BR/>Kok: Indeed, my friend. There are more unreported cases, because the victims are too afraid and sadly, ashamed of reporting the rape to the authoraties. Testifying will just make them re-live the trauma, which they are so fiercely trying to put out of their minds.Tinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03684484016009801609noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12672375.post-53945084361909494462007-05-04T22:36:00.000+10:002007-05-04T22:36:00.000+10:00Anonymous: No, I don't know. What sort of attentio...Anonymous: No, I don't know. What sort of attention do women seek? To be violently violated? If men can't control their hormones, then these are not real men. <BR/><BR/>I have mentioned before. There is NO justification to rape. Asking for attention? Playing with one's hair on the head excites one to rape? What a load of utter rubbish.Tinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03684484016009801609noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12672375.post-69164453717795786122007-05-04T22:26:00.000+10:002007-05-04T22:26:00.000+10:00But you know, some women, by asking for the attent...But you know, some women, by asking for the attention, for example through playing with the hair on their head, excite some hormones and got raped.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12672375.post-41632462078879834612007-05-04T21:59:00.000+10:002007-05-04T21:59:00.000+10:00tine, I read this news too. Like you, I would want...tine, <BR/>I read this news too. Like you, I would want the criminals to be caught. It's getting more and more rape case in this world, if not, Malaysia. Average, there's a rape case which you can read from the news. Definitely, it's more than that since some of them don't dare to report this. *SIGH* Our world is getting too complicated...Kokhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09080952716925786130noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12672375.post-3164401324627831462007-05-04T15:06:00.000+10:002007-05-04T15:06:00.000+10:00The violence in rape more often than not is part o...The violence in rape more often than not is part of the action. Rape is actually about power. The need to dominate over the victim. What men cannot have, they take by force, which in this case is exactly what rape is. To dominate over another when they cannot do it normally. <BR/><BR/>But it shows weakness in a person. The way bullies pick on the weak. They compensate for their weakness by this pathetic show of dominance. Unfortunately innocent people have to pay. For that, there is no fairness.Kamigoroshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03793971340146956624noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12672375.post-77174175935676119612007-05-04T13:14:00.000+10:002007-05-04T13:14:00.000+10:00yeah, i heard about the minister saying that, and ...yeah, i heard about the minister saying that, and that is one of the most stupid remarks i ever heard of. it's like saying that you're inviting people to rob you for carrying a handbag. stupid.<BR/><BR/>and that's a new point that i see here... rape is not about sex, but violence. i'll keep that in mind... one new thing that i hear, and i think it is as valid as it gets. :) thanks missconan_cathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11752615306003343894noreply@blogger.com