I posted this as a comment on Zewt's, and I thought, I'd write it out here as well. Because all I feel, right now, is utter shame.
I've been having fights after fights, screaming matches, etc with my mum for weeks now over my wedding. I came to the point where I was absolutely sick and fed up, that I just wanted to do away with the wedding and get the hell out of the house for good because I just couldn't stand her anymore.
Until I read this.
Then suddenly, the biggest feeling of shame washed over me, and now, all I can think of is give my mum a big hug when I see her, when I still can, and tell her I'm so sorry for giving her so much grief, so much pain, because I've been such an incredibly selfish daughter.
Thank you.
I've been having fights after fights, screaming matches, etc with my mum for weeks now over my wedding. I came to the point where I was absolutely sick and fed up, that I just wanted to do away with the wedding and get the hell out of the house for good because I just couldn't stand her anymore.
Until I read this.
Then suddenly, the biggest feeling of shame washed over me, and now, all I can think of is give my mum a big hug when I see her, when I still can, and tell her I'm so sorry for giving her so much grief, so much pain, because I've been such an incredibly selfish daughter.
Thank you.
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Tine, I thought I was alone.
I argued with my mom over my wedding so much until I thought of walking away from the wedding dinner. We disagreed about so many things and finally, I concluded that weddings are *not* about jef and i. It's also for those who love us. :)
so how are things now?
I couldn't help by read this little bit..
*hugs*
bad spelling! by = but..
reminds me of a little piece I wrote "to" my mum on my blog, a long time ago...
all is forgiven, yea? there's no such thing as bad blood between mum and daughter!
p.s. good luck in your application!
Tine: I think ALL bride-to-bes face such a dilemma. But you're right, the wedding involves everyone we love too. Now if I could only make that thought stick :p
Zewt: Better than before, but sometimes it does feel like walking on eggshells.
LB: Thanks *hugs*
May: Yep, no bad blood. All's forgiven (both sides) by the next day :)
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